Imagine waking up one morning to find out that someone has filed a restraining order against you. Your world is turned upside down, and you’re left wondering what this means for your life, your relationships and your future. It can feel embarrassing and upsetting, but it’s essential to know how to respond and what to do next.
Understanding the terms of a restraining order
A protection order can require you to do or refrain from doing certain things. These terms can be far-reaching and impact your daily life, and they vary from case to case. For example, a protection order may:
- Restrict direct and indirect contact with the protected person, including no communication, visits or proximity
- Require you to stay away from specific locations, such as the protected person’s residence, workplace or school
- Require you to surrender firearms or other weapons
- Require you to participate in counseling or treatment for anger management or substance abuse
- Impose a curfew or restrict your travel
- Prohibit you from possessing or using drugs and alcohol
It’s crucial to understand the specific terms of the order and comply with them to avoid legal consequences. It’s also important to know that in Colorado, there are two types of civil protection orders: temporary and permanent. Temporary orders are issued first and valid for up to 14 days, after which a hearing is held to determine if the courts will issue a permanent order.
How do I respond?
If someone serves you with a temporary restraining order, don’t ignore it. You have the right to attend all hearings related to the order and present your side of the story.
Most importantly, you must comply with the protection order while it is in effect, even if you disagree with it. Failure to do so can lead to arrest and prosecution. Even if the other person contacts you first, don’t respond. Call your lawyer instead.
Don’t underestimate the importance of having a skilled attorney to guide you through this challenging time. These are serious cases, and you must take them and your defense seriously. Remember, a restraining order is not a conviction, and you have the right to defend yourself and fight for your rights.